It's a simple image, grandparents surround by their grandchildren. It's a family celebration of their golden wedding anniversary, and part of that is taking photos outside of their house; everyone is dressed up nicely in new clothes, most likely brought for the special occasion. The oldest, and thus tallest, grandchildren stand at the back, while… Continue reading Meltdown Memory
It seems that in life you'll either stand out or slip into the shadows, unnoticed. Except, the chances are you probably won't. It's not that simple and most of the time it means you'll be one, while actual wanting to be the other. Being autistic means I naturally stand out so I spent years slipping… Continue reading Standing Out
I've been writing a lot of posts recently but within each post I get to a point where I stop and pause. There's one topic that reoccurs within discussions about autism and I've not felt ready to go into it fully. I think it's finally time I do, however, so here it is: my post… Continue reading Ableism and Autism
The past week has been an absolute rollercoaster of emotions for me. This due to circumstances both expected and unexpected but this doesn't necessarily make it easier for me to deal with them. I have alexithymia and I don't understand my emotions very well. The word 'alexithymia' stems from three Greek root words. The first… Continue reading Rollercoaster: My Experience with Alexithymia
Ever since I can remember, my family and I have travelled on trains or in the car. I could probably count on one hand the amount of times I've been on a bus. I've never really like it, the motion makes me feel ill and the fact I hadn't done much them made me feel… Continue reading Achievements: An Honest Account of Going on the Bus
Language is a key method of communication, and whether it's spoken, typed, written down or conveyed by other means, the same message is still getting across. When it comes to disability, and more specifically autism, language gets a bit complicated. There are two main types of language used in relation to autistic people: person-first and… Continue reading Language: Identity vs Person
The first thing that needs to be covered is the fact that autism, and its associated word forms, are a taboo. No one really wants to talk about it, it’s just not something that’s covered, which is simply ridiculous to me. Taboos attempt to keep some form of order in society but they just prevent… Continue reading What Is Autism?